When you do not own and feel your TRUE story, you will get stuck in the part you LIE to yourself about. What you get stuck in will start showing itself in other parts of your life until you surrender to SEEING IT.
When you release the old, there is room for new potentials to flow in your life without struggle.

Until you SEE and RELEASE the behaviors that prevent SELF LOVE, your life will mirror back to you your current distraction be it: blame, gossip, jealousy, money, power, sexual abuse, drug abuse, alcohol abuse, having the right truth, belonging and identifying with a special group, following the public opinion, or workshop feeding will be your existence.
With new energy your SAFE SPACE is being present in the “now moment”, breathing slowly and deeply feeling everything inside and outside the self.
In the current moment, your life starts to show itself little by little. Ask for slideshows of your past patterns or programs of behavior. Things that need to be addressed, sorrow, anger, feelings of all sorts. Do not condemn what comes up.
Feel it, own it and take the wisdom from your experiences and choose what you want to keep.